On a Saturday morning Aikido class a few years ago, Sensei brought in the book by Gichin Funakoshi, “The Twenty Guiding Principles of Karate”. He read us the first precept in full:
“karate-do begins and ends with rei”
“Along with judo and kendo, karate-do is a representative Japanese martial art. And with it’s fellow martial arts, karate-do should begin as it should end-with rei.”
“Rei is often defined as “respect,” but it actually means much more. Rei encompasses both an attitude of respect or others and a sens of self-esteem. When those who honor themselves, transfer that feeling of esteem-that is, respect to others, their action is nothing less than an expression of rei.”
“It is said that ‘without rei there is disorder,’ and also that ‘the difference between men and animals lies in rei’ Combat methods that lack rei are not martial arts but merely contemptible violence. Physical power without rei is no more than brute strength, and for human beings it is without value.”
“It should also be noted that although a person’s deportment may be correct, without a sincere and reverent heart they do not possess true rei. True rei is the outward expression of a respectful heart.”
“All martial arts begin and end with rei. Unless they are practiced with a feeling of reverence and respect, they are simply forms of violence. For this reason martial arts must maintain rei from beginning to end.”
These words are both beautiful and eloquent. I read this and re-read this now with my Shodan test less than a month away.
A friend recently asked me how my preparation was going. I answered with:
There are a few things I need to brush up on technically, but my main preparation is more about what I want to present back to Sensei and our dojo. For my last test i emphasized consistency with each technique and connection with my partner. I’ve been thinking about what Aikido means to me and the things I have to work on off the mat: not digging my heels in, giving, and rather than escalating an issue, softening one.
So, how do I express this on the mat in test format? How do I greet a strike or a grab with softness? How do I protect my partner as I protect myself? I think that answering these questions will be what I try to express for my test.
I think that these are good goals, but if I were to boil it down, there is one sentence in the first precept that really speaks to me, “True rei is the outward expression of a respectful heart.”
So, more than anything, past technique, past competence, past expression, my goal for my test is to outwardly express my respectful heart. That’s a truly high goal to shoot for and it means many things. But it’s something that I can focus on and answer with a simple yes or no. “Do my actions express my respect of others and respect to myself?”
So, with that, “rei”.